Tuesday, 20 July 2010

Pornography, sex and

Porn is the most googled word there is, along with tits and nude and ass! Sex is debatably the strongest instinct we have. It is, as well as self preservation and conquest, at the pinnacle of all our thoughts. That desire to procreate makes animals of even the most civilised people. During intercourse we do disgusting things that we’d rather not talk about in public. Many women are the worst for this sort of behavior they keep up a shining image in public and are filthy little vixens when the kit comes off, oh la la!

This seems to be a big part of the human condition in general, image. We spend so much time worrying about what other people think of us and to be honest those who say they don’t care about what other people think are probably the worst self conscious culprits. No one wants to admit they watch porn but everyone has unless you have been living in a seriously underdeveloped country or under the rule of a religious despot.

Porn is one of those things that is not quite acceptable everyone knows that everyone watches it at some point but no one wants to admit it. What are we all afraid of? We love sex so why are we getting on like we’re still at school, don’t you think this is all very childish? I’ll tell you why because collectively we don’t know if we’re animals or something better than animals. We act “civilised” at times but the old animal instincts still remain and keep coming back. Why is there war? Why do so many people in apparently in “stable” relationships cheat on their partners? Why is anger still such an issue in many peoples lives? Of course presently we can explain these patterns of behaviour by saying they are the fault of individuals but these traits are so widespread that blaming certain people is not looking seriously at the real causes.

We’re animals and we need to admit that instead of pretending we’re Gods. A lot of people will read this and say “Yeah he’s right!” then go back to their lives and behave in much the same way as they always have. A big part of our problem is that we know what way we should be behaving but there are so many things that we now consider to be important that we often can’t decide which issue is the most important and so we end up totally at odds with ourselves.

Sex is something that we really are very childish about it’s a hush hush part of our existence which is only whispered about in close knit groups. From a collective point of view I am looking at this aspect and think it is a reflection of how we actually feel about ourselves, we’re ashamed it seems. For a species to be so unsure about the very thing that should in reality be first and foremost is quite disturbing. I hate to burst the bubble that all you blind optimists have been so carefully preening but we could well be on that proverbial slippery slope to extinction. Once the ability to reproduce is compromised a species is only headed in one direction. I hope I am wrong I am not a pessimist, I am a realist. If you look at our collective plight and don’t see the warning signs then you really are not much use to humanity at all, you’re like one of those BP protesters who goes to the demonstrations then drives home in their BMW.

I suppose I rambled a bit there but I am only doing these blogs for practice while I get used to this new and different format of writing I appear to be developing and I am averaging a thousand words a day so it’s going pretty good! Back to the porn though the very reason why pornography exists is because we have been hiding from our true nature for thousands of years. When we start behaving like adults again and begin to make love in a more responsible fashion we will be able to love ourselves again and only then will we be able to leave these childish traits that are currently destroying us in the past (hopefully!)

Remember this you have nothing to be ashamed of and no need to portray an image for other people they're all just idiots like you. We're all in the same boat and we're not gonna fix ourselves or each other first time round, it'll be hard work! Get it HARD work! OK that joke didn't GO DOWN so well! OK I'll sto........ :)

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